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The Core Encounter, is an advanced and accelerated self development system for personal and interpersonal growth that can improve all areas of life using simple and highly effective methods for re-engineering the contents of your subconscious and the context YOU ARE.
Read below to see if The Core Encounter is right for you. It works for those with big challenges as well as those who are doing great and ready to go to the next level.
If you resonate with any of the above, The Core Encounter will certainly be for you.
Your mind is divided into two major domains: Conscious and Subconscious
The Subconscious Mind is responsible for up to 90% of your actions and how you see and experience the world.
When you attempt to use your conscious mind to make change, you may think positive, affirm that you're rich, and even get clear on your goals. However, if you're subconscious programming and conditioning is wired to believe otherwise, you will likely fail to fulfill your desire OR, if you do, will likely lose what you gain (self-sabotage).
It is possible to become CONSCIOUS of this SUBCONSCIOUS content and integrate these two minds creating greater harmony, personal power, and freedom to be your most successful self.
The most sabotaging factors of the subconscious are our traumas and our shadow. Keep reading to learn more.
Painful incidents and loss are part of all human experience. Though it is common, the means by which we integrate and process them isn't known by most people.
Neuroscience is showing us how traumatic experiences, both small and great, negatively impact our brains development and function in 5 key areas and weaken their interconnectivity reducing our overall potential. This lowers performance in life, health, business, and relationships.
The good news is that, in The Core Encounter, you can now use proven tools, techniques, and interpersonal processes in groups that can give you control over these key brain areas and increase interconnectivity between them. This releases more of your brain's potential and increases your chance of success in all areas of life.
"We all have a dark side to say the least..." - Pink Floyd
Growing up, we were quickly informed about what parts of us were acceptable and which parts were not. Over time, we SUPPRESS various thoughts, emotions, and even behaviors until they become REPRESSED, or inaccessible to our conscious awareness. These form our "shadow" and though not conscious, they have very real effects in our lives.
The shadow can contain our repressed anger, grief, insecurity, fear, sexual shame, and loss. It can also contain repressed joy, love, enthusiasm, and confidence. Whatever is unacceptable, denied, or unwanted in us is our shadow self. It is the part of us we believe to be evil and dangerous even if they are what most people consider "good" qualities.
If we are to achieve our best life, best relationships, and live our highest purpose, we absolutely MUST face our shadow. The good news is every bit of it is as worthy of love as all the rest of you. In The Core Encounter, we'll show you HOW.
The listening and speaking skills we learn from our parents, family members, peers, and even teachers are often poor examples with limited effectiveness. This results in arguments, defending, controlling, avoiding, dismissing, blaming, being "right", and other ineffective patterns in communication.
The skill of listening and speaking from and to your own and another's core is quite different than how we are taught. Instead of speaking responsibly and authentically in ways that connect us, we tend to speak in ways that alienate us. And worse, we defend it.
Core Communication skills allow you to access your true feelings and underlying needs. This empowers you to make genuine requests without demanding or suppressing what's important to you while staying connected to yourself and others.
In order to survive, our brain is designed to be "RIGHT" and in fact can never be wrong. It's a perfect computer, BUT, if the data in the computer isn't correct, we compute poorly.
This inherent need to be "RIGHT" has us develop a list of assumptions and beliefs that control our response to life and the people in it. We will defend our assumptions and beliefs foolishly even though they ruin our lives and relationships.
It's possible, through coaching and training, to begin to break free from our fixed beliefs and assumptions that have us stuck. This then gives us access to a limitless realm of possibilities to create what we truly want instead of repeating the same mistakes and failures.
Many of the goals people choose are actually rather superficial and out of touch with their own authentic self-expression or lacking clarity and a deeper connection to their core purpose.
Unless your goals come from a sense of deep connection to your core purpose, you aim for things that you cannot achieve or that do not satisfy.
If you haven't bridged the gap between the conscious and subconscious, integrated your trauma, developed Core Communication skills, and challenged your beliefs and assumptions, it is unlikely that you'll establish authentic and clear goals aligned with the purpose you ARE.
The Core Encounter teaches you, coaches you, and trains you on how to do it all.
There is power in numbers, and when it comes to shadow integration, deep processing of stubborn self limits, past pain, and a fragmented identity, there simply is no better to way than to have a powerfully aligned support group. Trying to do this type of work alone is like running in a hamster wheel.
The contents of our subconscious are deeply embedded, repressed, and don't welcome our awareness easily. But, with the power of a group, there is a greater degree of awareness and intention present as well as the sense of safety that we instinctively feel when we belong to a tribe. This allows for much greater access to the various hidden and oppressive programs in our subconscious allowing us the ability to release and rewrite them.
There are also many "mirrors" through the different people present who, in sharing their own experiences, feedback, and acknowledgments to you, will accelerate the work and make it more thorough and effective.
With The Core Encounter, you have a high powered, compassionate, and experienced team of coaches and intentional participants ready to partner up with you in the work.
Inner Coaching is a set of tools and practices that allow you access, explore, and release conflicts, resistance, and limitations inside of 4 Key Domains and frees you to operate from THE CORE.
These 4 Domains are the source of your personal reality, and specifically, the source of what holds you back from success in any and all areas of life.
The Core is that which you TRULY are beyond the limits of your mindbody system. We show you how to alter the cause NOT mask or cope with the symptoms.
Learn more about the 4 Domains and The Core below.
The Core is the very center, source, and cause of your existence. It is the "being" you ARE.
The Core has an ACTIVE and PASSIVE principle. It is active in that it can direct the Mind, Emotions, Feelings & Sensations, and Effort.
It is passive in that it receives information from or observes all 4 Domains. It is AWARE.
Inner Coaching and the Processes are designed to restore you to the throne of your kingdom. The Core is the King or Queen (The Sovereign Center of Consciousness) you are. The 4 Domains are your kingdom.
People suffer because they are under the control of the Mind, Emotions, Feelings & Sensations, and Efforts programmed within the subconscious mind.
When practicing Inner Coaching, you are learning how to master your own consciousness and everything contained therein. You learn to Face & Feel so you can Release and Heal everything within you.
This restores you to a sense of wholeness and releases the trapped Life Power that will lead you to a fantastic future.
The activity in any of the 4 Domains can be something you are conscious or aware of or not. If it is subconscious, it seems to run against your will making you a slave to these patterns.
Inner Coaching gives you a way to deprogram these automatic reactions in each of the 4 Domains.
This is the domain of thoughts both conscious & subconscious and contain the following:
Memory: All your recorded experiences of the past
Judgments & Evaluations: I like or I hate, I agree or disagree, it's right or wrong, good or bad
Conclusions & Meaning: the meaning we give events, circumstances, others behavior, or ourselves
Beliefs: Our assumptions and deep convictions about what is true or false, real or unreal
Emotions indicate whether your needs are met or unmet.
What most call "positive" emotions are the emotions you have when needs are met.
"Negative" emotions are when your needs are not met.
Emotions ultimately are neither good or bad or positive or negative. They are merely indicators of your relationship to your innate Life Potential and are ALL important. The more aligned with your Life Potential, the higher the level of emotion. It is more about your PERSPECTIVE from within than about your external conditions.
Through Inner Coaching, you learn to navigate the emotional scale freely and for the purpose of exploring what needs are seeking to be met so you can meet them.
Emotions can be mapped on a scale with POWERFUL at the top and POWERLESS at the bottom. Each emotion indicates degrees of Life Potential we are operating from.
Feelings & Sensations are are those "happenings" within your body such as:
Basically anything happening within the system of the body is the domain of Feelings & Sensations
Feelings are not the same as emotions in this system of thought.
By becoming more aware of the Feelings & Sensations in the body (also known as Somatic Awareness), you can identify areas of conflict and emotional blocks in your system to release them.
Effort is "applied force". When you practice Inner Work, you will identify and release various unconscious efforts that have run automatically or compulsively (a.k.a. your "bad" habits).
This frees you to make conscious efforts toward those things that matter most in your life.
Things to look for in this domain are your effort to:
There are many other types of efforts to look for. These are just some of the most troubling ones you will want to clear to free yourself from compulsive actions that harm you or others.
As stated earlier on this page, up to 90% of your behavior is subconsciously controlled. By making these subconscious efforts CONSCIOUS, you can actively release their compulsive and habitual force and be free.
The program is structured as follows:
The purpose of The Core Encounter is to provide you with the space, the support, and the awareness that will accelerate the process of clearing and integrating those thoughts, emotions, habits, and even physiological sensations that impede your ability to live powerfully and effectively in alignment with your highest purpose and potential.
What you have struggled for years to overcome or even discover will finally come to the surface to be properly addressed and cleared so that what remains is a deep sense of wholeness, power, freedom, and the ability to act in alignment with your core values and LIFE impulses.
Essentially, The Core Encounter is designed to empower the being you are and reduce any resistance that lurks in the subconscious mind.
The Core Encounter is strategically designed to facilitate greater degrees of awareness of your thoughts, emotions, feelings, sensations, and interpersonal habits so that the fixed and rigid structures that were developed throughout your life may be transcended. This allows for new ways of being and acting to be present that will allow greater success in whatever area of life you most need it.
Each member of the group is an integral player in each member's process. Everyone is a contributor and co-facilitator of every member's breakthroughs and healing. The group dynamic makes possible levels of growth that are otherwise nearly impossible in a typical one to one coaching scenario.
Members will share, answer questions, give and receive feedback, hold space for other members, and be intentional about the purposes and goals of group and each member.
Through your presence, engagement, and active participation in The Core Encounter you can create these results for yourself. Note: we cannot guarantee you will create these, but our promise is that with your intention and commitment in our environment, YOU can create them for yourself.